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101st ARTICLE: POOR CHOICES LEAD PEOPLE DOWN TROUBLED PATHS

Kamloops This Week
September 7, 2007
POOR CHOICES LEAD PEOPLE DOWN TROUBLED PATHS

Editor:

In response to recent letters from bleeding hearts on the issue of prostitution, not all thieves and prostitutes have the excuse of being from a broken or abusive home.

My oldest daughter was not abused or from a broken home.

She was married and had two lovely children. A friend of her husband talked them into trying cocaine at a party. She liked it and got hooked.

The man traded sexual favours for the drug. It soon cost her her family, her dignity and, a short time later, her life.

I buried her in 1995 at 22 years of age.

I take offense to those who say parents are responsible for the problems of their children.

Get in touch with the real world. When a person steals, rapes, murders or gets involved in prostitution or drugs, it is their decision.

Children run away from home for some of the stupidest reasons – their mom won’t let them stay out past midnight or their parents won’t let their boyfriend sleep over in their room.

I am not the only parent who would take offense to such blame-the-parents attitude.

There is a loving family here in Kamloops trying to raise a reward to find their daughter, who went missing in Las Vegas.

Is she from an abusive or broken home? Or did she make some bad decisions?

I have pictures and a death certificate to back up my letter.

That’s why I walk with the North Shore Safety Patrol – to protect or help someone else’s daughter.

What do other letter writers do to make things better?

Jay Barlow, Kamloops

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